Me, Myself, or Him?: A Woman’s Guide to Self-Love, Boundaries, and Finding the Right Partner

Me, Myself, or Him? It is a powerful, faith-centered guide for women who are tired of repeating unhealthy relationship patterns and are ready to choose clarity, self-respect, and emotional peace. Written by the Owner and Founder of Hope & Harmony Behavioral Health Services, Sherita DeJohn Turner, a dedicated professional, this book speaks directly to women who have loved deeply, waited patiently, and questioned whether choosing love has required them to lose themselves in the process.Drawing from real conversations with fifty women from diverse backgrounds, along with professional insight and personal reflection, this book explores what healthy love truly looks like and why it must begin within. It challenges the idea that fulfillment comes from finding the right partner and instead focuses on becoming whole, grounded, and emotionally secure before inviting someone into your life.Through honest storytelling, faith-based wisdom, and practical guidance, readers are guided to recognize emotional red flags such as love-bombing, breadcrumbing, gaslighting, and control. The book helps women understand the difference between chemistry and consistency, excitement and emotional safety, and teaches how to walk away from relationships that compromise peace, values, or self-worth.Each chapter encourages self-reflection and growth, offering tools for building self-love, setting healthy boundaries, healing through forgiveness, developing emotional intimacy, and trusting God’s timing without settling or rushing love. Affirmations, journaling prompts, and real-life stories help readers apply these lessons in a meaningful and personal way.Me, Myself, or Him? It is for women who are healing from heartbreak, learning to say no without guilt, and seeking love that aligns with their faith, values, and emotional well-being. It is also a thoughtful read for men who want to better understand a woman’s heart and learn how to love with respect, consistency, and integrity.This book reminds readers that the most important relationship they will ever have is the one they build with themselves. When a woman honors her worth, protects her peace, and trusts the process, she no longer chases love—she attracts it. Read more